Give Your Critical Voice A New Job!

All of us have experienced the nagging of our critical voice.  My theory is that this is the function of the ego trying to keep us safe.  It can be annoying, discouraging and persistent, I know.  Ahhhh…
And we are fully capable of becoming more aware of the inner criticand redirecting that conversation.
1.  Begin by observing what you are saying to yourself inside your head all day long.  Warning – this can be shocking!
2.  Be grateful for the part of you that is keeping you safe.  Pat your heart and say, “thank you for keeping me safe – I’ve got this”.
3.  Set an intention to catch yourself and shift to a more positive, encouraging thought.
4.  Be gentle with yourself as you practice noticing what is going well in your day.  We are reprogramming our minds to pay more attention to what goes well and less attention to potential danger – creating new neuro pathways.
5.  Pause when you notice the critical voice, shift your awareness to what feels good and savor the goodness for 10 seconds.
6.  Rinse and repeat.
Let me know how you do with this practice.  You can even practice when meditating – rather than struggling to quiet your mind.  Ahhhh…
Today I am enjoying a lovely avocado and packing to prepare for a four day yoga retreat weekend with my sister friends.  Take very good care of yourselves and happy practicing.

Awareness Practice

Awareness Of the Breath   

Often when I’m teaching someone who is new to Meditation, they will say:  “I can’t meditate – I can’t quiet my mind.”

 That’s when I love to suggest that thinking of it as AWARENESS PRACTICE and simply focusing on the breath can be so helpful.   Meditation is not something mysterious and mystical.  It is simply a technique and a tool to train our minds to stay in the present moment.  Sitting quietly and focusing on the sensations of the breath can help to quiet the thoughts and calm and body and mind.  Even noticing the breath throughout the day can bring us back to center and release anxiety.

Awareness of the Body Sensations A very effective way to improve our well being is to practice noticing when you feel tension and congestion in your body.  Basically catching yourself in habits of physical tension and responding mindfully.   I have been practicing noticing tension in my shoulders.  I seem to accumulate tension there and catch myself often tightening those muscles throughout the day.  Every time I catch myself holding tension there – I get up and jiggle, breathe, stretch – especially with arms over my head – and remind my body to relax.

Awareness of the Environment We are all surrounded by the sounds of traffic, machinery, television and other people.  Perhaps you also add music in your home, car or in your headphones.  Do you ever simply enjoy sitting in silence?  One of the most wonderful benefits of Meditation is turning our attention inward to unplug from the external world.  This is very calming and allows us to listen within – to our own intuition and wisdom.   Is your living space comfortable and calming?  I’ve been on another round of clearing clutter from my home – sorting, tossing and donating feels so satisfying and leaves me with only those things that I truly love and enjoy.  Being more intentional with what I allow into my space helps me to appreciate the beauty and creativity I’m bringing into my environment.  

Awareness of Self & Others Another way to practice Mindfulness, is to pay conscious attention to how you interact with other people.  Notice who you enjoy being around.  Notice who drains your energy and who is fun to be with.  Make conscious choices about where you put your energy and time.  Allow time for your own self-care and rest.  I say Yes-And.  Yes – I take good care of myself – And – I enjoy time with friends and family.    

Tapping for Caregivers

Set Up Statements:“Even though I have all these responsibilities and it’s exhausting, I love and accept myself and all my feelings.”Even though I feel frustrated and overwhelmed and part of me is holding onto these feelings, for whatever reason, conscious or unconscious, I choose to relax and take care of myself with love and acceptance.”

Reminder Statements:  All this responsibility *** So much to do and so little time *** All this pressure *** So many details *** It feels like it’s all up to me *** I feel exhausted *** So many decisions *** It’s just too much.

When You Begin to Feel Relief

Set Up Statement:“Even though I feel calmer and more relaxed, part of me might still be holding on to the stress, for whatever reason, conscious or unconscious.  I choose to remember my needs and I love, accept and forgive myself and I am safe.

Reminder Statements:  “This remaining stress and overwhelm *** I’d really like to let it go *** This remaining frustration *** It’s time to release it now *** The truth is – I’m doing the best I can *** This remaining sadness and regret *** It’s safe to relax and let go *** Any remaining pressure *** That I’m putting on myself *** I am beginning to release and let go.” Continue to tap until you feel relief from the intense feelings.  Take a few deep breaths whenever you feel fatigue and anxiety.  Continue this practice each day as you continue to practice taking good care of yourself as well as your loved ones.  

Complete your practice with Happy Tapping:“I’m healing and releasing the past *** I’m grateful for the healing *** My body is my teacher *** I’m feeling so much clearer now *** Making healthy choices *** I’m giving my body love and support *** I’m grateful for my strong, flexible, healthy body *** Thank you, thank you, thank you!

Tap Into Your Healing Power

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